Just remember, whatever it is people say to you in response to your barrenness, they are just saying whatever really comforts themselves.
So, when all of that anger and pain and frustration boil to the surface at being told you should just relax or take more Vitamin D or make an appointment with Dr. Doogie Howser or start the adoption process or lift your cervix for thirty minutes after intercourse or pray harder in order to get pregnant, take a deep breath and think of it this way:
They are not telling you what to do and how to be and how to feel; they are telling you what comforts them. They are helping you know them better.
That’s not so bad, right?