Nurse: Do you have any children?
Me: We have not been blessed with any children, and I’m thinking maybe it won’t happen at this point.
Nurse: Oh, now, I don’t know. I have many friends who have done IVF, and, then, when they stopped trying and finally relaxed, they got pregnant.
Me: Well, my husband and I’ve never done IVF, so we’ve been relaxing for over eleven years, now. We’ve probably earned a black belt in relaxation.
Nurse: But, still, you never know. I have a friend who tried for years to get pregnant. Then, when she and her husband adopted a child, they suddenly got pregnant.
Me: I have a sister who has adopted three children and has never been pregnant. I also have two close friends who adopted three children between them in the last year, and neither of them have gotten pregnant since. And my husband and I never got pregnant after going through the foster parent training program. That was three years ago.
Nurse: I don’t know. I know too many people who’ve had that happen.
Me: I’m not saying it doesn’t happen. I’m just saying that it also doesn’t happen.
Nurse: Well, it seems like a lot of people get pregnant that way.
Me: And a lot of people don’t. As many as one-third of the couples who seek medical help for their infertility never achieve a pregnancy.
Nurse: That’s not a very big number.
Me: It is to one-third of the couples trying to get pregnant.
Nurse: The glass is half full.
Me: And half empty. But what does it matter? Why bother measuring the glass at all when taking a drink? It is what it is, and it is given to us by God for our good. Bottoms up!